Instead of hating, I have chosen to forgive and spend all of my positive energy on changing the world.
It's okay to be a fat man. It's prestige and power and all of that. But fat women are seen as just lazy and stupid and having no self-control.
So instead of beating myself up for being fat, I think it's a miracle that I laugh every day and walk through my life with pride, because our culture is unrelenting when it comes to large people.
Years ago women of my size were considered royalty.
Handsome, thin, sophisticated men often fall madly in love with larger women, we just never see it on TV.