A woman whose smile is open and whose expression is glad has a kind of beauty no matter what she wears.
I think it is a good thing to have woman friends at every stage of life. We confide in each other, we support each other, we understand each other most of the time. Of course, sometimes we are competitive or angry or distant, too. But I do think it is important not to let the main friendships slip away in the sweep of the days.
Grief is in two parts. The first is loss. The second is the remaking of life.
Self-pity is never useful. It tends to distort like a fun-house mirror.
I have always been fascinated by the human mind, conscious and unconscious - that is what writing and reading is about, too. The why of your life and the why of your choices and the what has happened that you know and the what that you don't know is really riveting, and psychoanalysts share my wonder at how it all unfolds.