To look good in the water you have to pick the right swimsuit. I own close to 500.
I concentrate on preparing to swim my race and let the other swimmers think about me, not me about them.
The swimming community is really conservative. I don't know why, because we're in no clothing whatsoever.
I protect my skin with sunscreen and am religious about keeping my face moisturized and properly protected all day, so I also use a face lotion with SPF 30.
I always tell people, I'm a better swimmer because I'm a mom and a better mom because I'm swimmer.